On Brotherhood and Sharing a drink.
Oct. 27th, 2010 09:56 pmI promised to be spammy while hubby's away. So here is it. Some meta and a (poorly constructed) picspam.
There was a line Dean said in the recent episode "Live Free or Twihard" that struck a note with me. I wanted to explore that a little.
"When's the last time we had a beer together anyway?"
That's the second time Dean's has said something like that. The last time was in Swap Meat when he and Not!Sam were sharing a drink together
"Is it just me or are we actually drinking together?" (It's interesting that the same sentiment is uttered to "alien" Sams).
I started thinking about all the times the boys did share a beer or a drink together and how, in many ways, it signified the state of their relationship.
Early on we often had scenes in bars where they were casually researching their next job:

(The Benders)
The boys are comfortable; sharing a beer and intel.

(Provenance)
Sam: "So what are we this week Dean? Rock stars? Army Rangers?"
I love this smile from Sam. Dean's flirting with the girls at the bar and Sam is full of admiration and a sense of the familiar.

The "sharing a drink" became more important as the seasons progressed. There was a lot less drinking in bars and more either in hotels or by the roadside. They were moments of sharing inner thoughts and secrets. And significantly - 2 major reveals.

(Hunted)
Dean: "He said that I might have to kill you Sammy"

(Heaven and Hell)
Dean: "...for thirty years. But I couldn't do it any more Sammy."
And then there's the comfort drink. Usually post hunt:

(Long Distant Call)
Sam: "I'm sorry it wasn't dad"
Dean: "I wanted to believe so badly there was a way out of this."

(Fresh Blood)
Dean: "And besides, it's my job right? Show my little brother the ropes."

(Houses of the Holy)
Sam: "I dunno Dean.... I wanted to believe so badly... I..."
(God this scene KILLS me in hindsight. Especially Dean's "I'm watching out for you" and Sam's "maybe I could be saved..." GUH
That's possibly one of my all time favourite scenes. Well, second to this one of course:

(A Very Supernatural Christmas)
Dean: "Merry Christmas Bro."
And the last time they really did share a beer was to say good-bye to each other:

(Swan Song)
Dean: 'The truth is, watching out for you, it's kinda been my job, you know..?" (whaaaa)
No wonder Dean misses it. Some much was shared. Whether it be comfortable research or heart felt confessions the boys were together. He missed it in Season 5 when the brothers seemed to be taking one step forward and 3 steps back and now in season 6, when they haven't really connected at all. *sniff*
The drinking they do in the show is significant. Not just something to "do" with their hands. Both boys have used it as an escape after loosing each other. Burying the pain. But they have also used it has a way of bonding and sharing.
My hope is that we will be able to see them share a drink together again. A real drink. A celebratory drink. A drink to that will signal that they are on some sort of road back to brotherhood.

(After School Special)
Cheers.
please excuse the poor quality of this picspam. The pics were more to emphasis a point rather than any claim I have that I can actually do these..*g*)
There was a line Dean said in the recent episode "Live Free or Twihard" that struck a note with me. I wanted to explore that a little.
"When's the last time we had a beer together anyway?"
That's the second time Dean's has said something like that. The last time was in Swap Meat when he and Not!Sam were sharing a drink together
"Is it just me or are we actually drinking together?" (It's interesting that the same sentiment is uttered to "alien" Sams).
I started thinking about all the times the boys did share a beer or a drink together and how, in many ways, it signified the state of their relationship.
Early on we often had scenes in bars where they were casually researching their next job:

(The Benders)
The boys are comfortable; sharing a beer and intel.

(Provenance)
Sam: "So what are we this week Dean? Rock stars? Army Rangers?"
I love this smile from Sam. Dean's flirting with the girls at the bar and Sam is full of admiration and a sense of the familiar.

The "sharing a drink" became more important as the seasons progressed. There was a lot less drinking in bars and more either in hotels or by the roadside. They were moments of sharing inner thoughts and secrets. And significantly - 2 major reveals.

(Hunted)
Dean: "He said that I might have to kill you Sammy"

(Heaven and Hell)
Dean: "...for thirty years. But I couldn't do it any more Sammy."
And then there's the comfort drink. Usually post hunt:

(Long Distant Call)
Sam: "I'm sorry it wasn't dad"
Dean: "I wanted to believe so badly there was a way out of this."

(Fresh Blood)
Dean: "And besides, it's my job right? Show my little brother the ropes."

(Houses of the Holy)
Sam: "I dunno Dean.... I wanted to believe so badly... I..."
(God this scene KILLS me in hindsight. Especially Dean's "I'm watching out for you" and Sam's "maybe I could be saved..." GUH
That's possibly one of my all time favourite scenes. Well, second to this one of course:

(A Very Supernatural Christmas)
Dean: "Merry Christmas Bro."
And the last time they really did share a beer was to say good-bye to each other:

(Swan Song)
Dean: 'The truth is, watching out for you, it's kinda been my job, you know..?" (whaaaa)
No wonder Dean misses it. Some much was shared. Whether it be comfortable research or heart felt confessions the boys were together. He missed it in Season 5 when the brothers seemed to be taking one step forward and 3 steps back and now in season 6, when they haven't really connected at all. *sniff*
The drinking they do in the show is significant. Not just something to "do" with their hands. Both boys have used it as an escape after loosing each other. Burying the pain. But they have also used it has a way of bonding and sharing.
My hope is that we will be able to see them share a drink together again. A real drink. A celebratory drink. A drink to that will signal that they are on some sort of road back to brotherhood.

(After School Special)
Cheers.
please excuse the poor quality of this picspam. The pics were more to emphasis a point rather than any claim I have that I can actually do these..*g*)
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Date: 2010-10-27 05:11 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-10-27 05:26 pm (UTC)A real drink. A celebratory drink. A drink to that will signal that they are on some sort of road back to brotherhood.
Yes, this! *wistful sigh*
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Date: 2010-10-27 08:08 pm (UTC)*happpy sigh*
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Date: 2010-10-27 08:51 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-10-27 10:53 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-10-27 10:53 pm (UTC)*smish*
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Date: 2010-10-27 10:54 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-10-27 10:55 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-10-27 10:57 pm (UTC)(I gotta find that scene of them drinking under the stars...)
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Date: 2010-10-27 11:10 pm (UTC)Thanks hun.
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Date: 2010-10-27 11:35 pm (UTC)The scenes where we get the classic line, "Shotgun picks the music" and the magic fingers discussion where Sam tells Dean that he's "uncomfortable," were great character moments, but didn't actually advance the plot any, and it's that kind of stuff I miss. Of couse we can't have any of that until they Fix. Them. Which had better be soon.
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Date: 2010-10-27 11:49 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-10-28 12:46 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-10-28 02:09 am (UTC)Sam: "So what are we this week Dean? Rock stars? Army Rangers?"
Totally shallow comment -- I love the way he says "rock stars". You can really hear the drawl there.
That scene is HotH is so sad to revisit considering how crushed Sam was to discover what heaven's host was really like.
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Date: 2010-10-28 02:51 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-10-28 04:14 am (UTC)Did you consider including the Dream a Little Dream of Me scene of the boys drinking dreamroot to enter Bobby's dream? (You know the one - the ep where Sam demonstrated his ability to turn the tables on a self-proclaimed god.)
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Date: 2010-10-28 04:16 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-10-28 04:32 am (UTC)I suppose I'm all for not working them into the ground... but it would be nice to see some of those little moments again one day. :)
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Date: 2010-10-28 04:33 am (UTC)Please...
xx
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Date: 2010-10-28 04:34 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-10-28 04:34 am (UTC)Maybe one day.
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Date: 2010-10-28 04:38 am (UTC)My god! That scene from HoH really hurt this time. I haven't rewatched it for a while and the sheer heart break from Sam and Dean's deep concern is so painful to watch now in retrospect. Long gone are those characters. And even though Dean still cares, I think there's a weariness about his care. He's just been through so much already. It's one reason why I had hoped they wouldn't go down this route with their characters.
I really wanted them to catch a break. No such luck. They are Winchesters after all.
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Date: 2010-10-28 04:42 am (UTC)The little walk down memory lane was a pleasure though, thanks for grabbing that line and running with this, it was definitely warranted. :))
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Date: 2010-10-28 04:44 am (UTC)And interesting point. (hee! I did love "Yoko factor that season" LOL).
But yes - I think it could be quite significant that Sam went from one time of drinking to another. From alcohol that kills the pain to blood that gave him a sense of power and control. I hadn't considered that, but it's really an interesting look at their drinking habits.
Thaks so much for sharing your thoughts.
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Date: 2010-10-28 08:10 am (UTC)I love that the drinking provides continuity - doesn't matter what shit the boys went through that week, at some point beer was retrieved from the cool box. It just gives a wonderful sense of what life on the road was like in just a very cool short scene - regardless of what they were saying to each other.
It just emphasises the lack of continuity in season 6 - and Sam's 'otherness'
Thanks again